Why do I read aloud to my kids (now ages 11 and 7) when they can—and do—read to themselves?

Reason #3:  For The Conversations

Books make great conversation starters.

Some of these conversations are silly:

• What if you could say “Accio lunchbox” instead going back to the car to fetch it? (Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K. Rowling)
• What if you had a third ear on top of your head and could hear other people’s thoughts? (Wayside School Gets a Little Stranger by Louis Sachar)
• If you had a Greek god for a parent, who would it be? (The Lightning Thief by Rick Riordan)

Others are more serious. For instance, all kids have had the experience of envying—and being envied by—a friend or sibling. But jealousy can be a more difficult emotion to name and understand than happiness, sadness, or anger. Situations in books can help prompt conversations. Here are a couple that come to mind:

• Lyle the Crocodile feels jealous of Joshua Primm on his birthday. (Lyle and the Birthday Party by Bernard Waber)
• Ron Weasley is jealous of Harry Potter’s fame, and Harry is jealous of Ron’s family. (Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by J.K. Rowling)

Books can also provide teachable moments. For example, Greg Heffley, the protagonist of the hilarious Diary of a Wimpy Kid books by Jeff Kinney, often makes bad choices. Some people criticize the series for teaching bad lessons, but I think kids are perfectly able to judge for themselves, for instance, that it’s wrong for Greg to let his best friend take the blame for something he did wrong.

I love it when an episode in a book leads to an interesting conversation with one of my kids. I also treasure the little moments when something in real life reminds my kids of a book we read together.